Or you know that you don’t eat well and you work towards improving it while ignoring the fact that you have too much stress in your life. Maybe, you can be very aware of your money problems, but you don’t allow yourself to see how your relationship keeps you stuck. During this stage, we feel like something deep and essential is missingin our life, but we can’t quite put the finger on it.įrom my experience, I know that everyone is in this first stage regarding some of their issues. In fact, we believe that there is nothing to be improved.īut I also know that it never makes us happy and fulfilled. In a way, this stage is much easier because when we don’t realize our mistakes, we don’t need to change them. Yet we think that everything is fine and we happily live in self-denial. Perhaps, it can be crystal clear for others where we keep playing small or that we can’t control our anger. In the first stage, we make the same mistakes over again, and we aren’t even aware of it. The 4 stages of repeating the same mistakes 1. “If I had to live my life again, I’d make the same mistakes, only sooner.” So I don’t want you to look at these stages in the term of better or worse but rather as a road-map which helps you see how we evolve and our mistakes together with it. Each of us can be in every stage simultaneously as we have a different level of consciousness and embodied wisdom towards different life areas and problems.
There are 4 stages that we go through before we truly break free from the same mistakes. The reason for repeating the same mistakes is that you haven’t fully integrated the knowledge and realizations you have. (Although it may feel like that at times.) Forever! Repeating the same mistakes also doesn’t mean that you haven’t learned anything and that you’re going backward. The reason isn’t that there is something wrong with you and you’re destined to suffer and be unhappy. If this is how you feel I want to motivate you to hold on, and most of all, help you understand why this happens. Sometimes it seems that we have to step in the same waters over again. You might have read many books and taken many seminars yet when someone triggers you it feels as almost you’ve learned nothing. I know that many of you have been on your inner growth paths for a longer time. We keep repeating the same mistakes in relationships and let them unfold the same way. We don’t speak up when it matters, or we say too much to those we love, and we hurt them. Sometimes life can seem like a tangle of similar events. Repeating the same mistakes can be frustrating.
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